What the John 3:16ers don't tell you is John 3:18. Which says, "He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God."
God is hate. God gave his angels painless lives unearned while inflicting biting miseries on his other children and forcing them to earn salvation. In spite of the fact that the angels were living the life of Riely one third of them rebelled and attacked God and the other angels. God's punishment for Lucifer the rebellion's leader was expulsion from heaven and reign over the earth and the management of God's other creation hell.
If you think that God gives a fuck about you and yours, you are NUTS but what you are really doing it faking it. Deep down you know the god you worship is EVIL and you are living in fear of him. Try admitting the truth.
Caveat: Nothing in the Bible was written by Jesus.
Caveat: Nothing in the Bible was written by Jesus.